Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Late night... but a surprisingly good day!

Brenna had a sleep over last night with her friend that lives next door (previous post). It was pretty exciting for her (and me!) because it was the first real sleep over that Brenna has ever had. I went on a store-run at 9:30pm and got them popcorn and M&M's and they watched a movie. After that it was hair and nails - so cute! They did each others hair and Isabelle painted Brenna's toe nails. I was a little iffy about how late to let them stay up but they were having sooo much fun and I didn't want to ruin it so it wasn't until about 1:30 when I finally said, "Lights out girls!". I heard them giggling until almost 2am though.

Guess what time they woke up this morning!!??

I was seriously expecting them (hoping I guess!) to sleep until about 9 or so but Brendon came in the bedroom at about 7:15 (he wakes up at 6am for work) and told me that they were up! Oh geez. Five hours sleep for my little Brenna. I didn't think that would go over very well around noon or so. But surprisingly she did great all day - they both did. I did yard work in the back all day and Isabelle stayed here until about 6pm. I could tell that Brenna was getting a little tired and grumpy towards the end so I sent Isabelle home before it got too bad. It's all about prevention! LOL

So tonight I thought she'd go to bed around 8 or so but she stayed up until almost 9:30 and that's when I started seeing her get pretty red-eyed and veerry grumpy! I'm usually pretty lenient about her bedtime but tonight she went to bed a little upset because she wanted to stay up longer. I just KNEW she was exhausted though and I "mommied-up" and off to bed she went. I stayed for our song and she was asleep before it even ended.

What an eventful day and night! I think she's got the "sleep-over bug" now! It begins.....LOL

Monday, June 29, 2009

Fun Week

Brenna and I spent most of last week at the Arroyo and had such a great time! Brendon went out of town again for work so I figured instead of staying home, we'd kinda mix things up a bit and go on a mini-vacation. My parents have a trailer down there so that's where we stayed. Free vacation - can't beat that! LOL My Aunt RuthAnn lives down there so we got spoiled every night with dinner, which was very nice because she's a wonderful cook! Brenna and I borrowed her kayak and went kayaking in the river one morning. I'd never done that before and Brenna was pretty nervous cuz she knew that Mom was inexperienced. We did fine though and never tipped over. I did end up in the water when we were getting in because I slipped on the boat ramp. Ouch! Kept me nice and cool though.
We went fishing off the pier everyday and Brenna finally caught her first fish! She was sooo excited and really loved it. It was just a little 8 inch catfish but you would have thought it was a 30 inch red with the way her face looked. Priceless. Of course I forgot to take my camera - typical. Hopefully I'll have it next time we go and I'll post a picture.
It was so nice staying down there and I think we're going to do that more often during the times that Brendon goes out of town and we can't go with him. Beats staying at home and doing all the usual stuff.

So this past weekend my parents had a bar-be-que at their house. They celebrated paying off their house, which being a homeowner myself, is a really big deal. Most of our family from San Antonio came down and it was nice visiting with my Grandma Carol, Aunt Barbara and my Aunt Susie. Grandma - I never did see you before you left but I'm hoping to make it up there sometime soon! *BIG HUGS TO YOU!!*

Brenna is having a sleep over tonight with the little girl that lives next door. They recently moved in and have only played a couple times but they get along so great. She's 10 and so very sweet. They played today and Brenna asked if she could sleep over and I said yes. (They are the same neighbors that I posted the picture of with all the laundry along the back fence.) There are like 8 kids in that house and I really feel for the little girl because it kinda seems like she's the baby sitter. It's going to be nice for her to have a little peace tonight and hang out with Brenna here at our house. I told Brenna that her Mom might not let her because we've never met them before but I was wrong. I did take it upon myself to go over to the house and talk to the Mom though and make sure it was okay. I guess I just find that a little weird - letting your 10 year old stay the night at some one's house that you've never even met before. I know my Mom was very strict about that when I was little and I know I'll be the same way with Brenna.

Well, off to check on the girls and maybe make them some popcorn. I have a feeling it's going to be a late night.
Till fingers and keyboard meet again......

Friday, June 19, 2009

Venting (again...)

One of the many reasons why I'm sooooo glad my kid doesn't go to school.....

Okay, so I wasn't going to complain about this on my blog but after talking to Brendon and being justified on my opinion about this by him (sometimes I'm a bit sensitive) , I figured I'd get it off my chest. I'm always looking for drama to post on the blog anyways, LOL :)

Brenna has been complaining lately about being "bossed around" a lot by her teachers at summer camp. Okay, so I figured - this is a kid who's never been to school and has not experienced the whole I'm-the-almighty-teacher-you-listen-to-me-or-else thing so it can't be that bad - she's just not used to it. Brendon and I are very relaxed with her and are not your typical parents I guess. She's not spoiled by any means but she is treated like a person with her own feelings and opinions. I like it that way. Surprisingly, we don't have many problems with her. We respect her and don't take on the role as "the superiors". Does she act like a kid? Yes. Does she sometimes act up? Yes. But I think it would be ten times worse if we would constantly boss her around. She's a very opinionated little girl. And I believe that if you show respect then you will get respect. It may not happen over-night (and it is something that they definitely have to learn) but I think it's very good for the long-run kinda thing, which is what you are ultimately shooting for.
Anyway, I'm totally getting off-topic.

Friday morning Brenna and I got to the school to go on the field trip that never happened (previous post). When we entered the cafeteria all the kids were sitting on the floor in a line, paired up with who they were going to sit with on the bus. At this point it was 8:30am. We were told to be there by this time because that's when they would be leaving. So Brenna takes her place in line and is sitting and talking to a group of girls, one of which is her very bestest friend there, Kayla. Yes, it was loud - kids were talking and having fun - what else were they supposed to do? At this point one of the teachers starts clapping his hands and telling the kids that they are being way too loud. Then he proceeds to start talking in this ridiculously low, almost whisper, voice and tells all of them that if they can't hear him when he talks like this then they are being too loud. What the hell? What do you expect them to do? These kids range from ages 4 to about 10. You seriously expect them to just sit there and act like perfect little angels and talk in whispers so that they can hear the teacher if he decides to talk in his abnormal midget voice? Come on.
So it's about 8:45 now and I am getting really annoyed. Not at the loudness of the kids (to me that's normal) but by the teachers constantly telling them to "Be quiet", "Sit up straight", "Don't lay down, sit on your bottom", blah, blah, blah. AHHHH! Ok, if you don't want to be around loud, chattering kids then find a different profession!!
This went on for a total of 30 minutes. I was getting restless after 20 minutes, waiting till it was time to get on the bus - can you imagine how hard it is for a 7 year old to stay quiet and talk in whispers for half an hour? Ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous. I had to bite my tongue so hard to keep quiet and not tell these teachers what I thought of them and their crazy expectations. Thank goodness they did not single my daughter out like they did some kids. They would have had a Mama Bear to deal with. None of them were doing anything wrong.

Today I talked to Brenna and she started telling me about how much the teachers control everything they do. During "free time" they tell the kids what to do; they can't go to the bathroom unless it is a designated bathroom break - that one really bothered me. Are they going to pay for my kid's doctor bill if she gets a bladder infection? Any person should be free to use the bathroom at their discretion. That's a human right. She told me that she has asked them numerous times if she could call and talk to me for a few minutes or ask if she could go home and they tell her NO. I told her to tell them that I said she could call me whenever she wants and go home when she wants. It's not that hard for them - they carry a cordless phone with them - I've seen it. Brenna has my number - they don't have to look it up. Maybe they are worried about other kids wanting to call their parents too - I don't care. I'm thinking of either letting her take my cell phone or writing a note that tells them she can call me when she wants, especially if she wants to call to go home. I don't need this place as a day care. She can come home when she wants.

I'm just really annoyed by all this - can you tell? I do not like the whole "school scenario" one bit. So glad my kid doesn't go to school and have to put up with this nine months out of the year.

End of vent! :) Thanks for putting up with me.

TGIF!

Well this week really got away from me and now it's already Friday! Nothing too eventful has happened. Brenna and I were supposed to go on a field trip this morning with her Summer Camp group to the Young Chef's Academy. Notice I said "supposed to". Turns out that the bus had a flat tire and nobody realized it until all the kids were outside, lined up and ready to go - they were actually in the process of getting on the bus when someone noticed the tire. Talk about disappointment! Those kids were so bummed out. Hopefully they will be able to reschedule because that was the field trip that Brenna and I have been looking most forward to. If not then I will have to make a point of taking her myself one day - I heard that it's a pretty cool place.

So I've still been exercising on a daily basis like a real trooper! It's getting easier and easier though. I've turned my 2 mile trek into a 4 mile trek and it feels wonderful. I was only going out for 30 minutes but have bumped it up to one hour. I read that to maintain the weight you are then 30 minutes is sufficient, but to lose weight then you have to exercise at least an hour. I got a little discouraged earlier this week because the scale showed that I went back up to 160 (was down to 158 at one point) and I didn't understand why I wasn't losing any weight when I was being so diligent about eating right and exercising. I almost threw in the towel but I started to notice a couple days ago that my clothes when not fitting quite as snug and today I actually wore a shirt that had I never worn before and my belly didn't look like Jabba the Hut! LOL So now I am totally re-motivated. I guess I am losing fat and gaining some muscle at the same time.

Ok, well Brenna is still at Summer Camp so I am off to do some dishes and head to the grocery store. I hope everyone has a great day!

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Great Night

As I sit here at the computer and write this Brenna is under the dining room table, in her fort that she built with all of her stuffed "buddies", a bunch of pillows and blankets, reading a book before going to sleep. Did I mention that it is 10:45pm? This would have been completely unheard of in my house about three months ago - maybe even as close as a month ago. It's nice though letting her do things like this instead of saying no all the time. You should have seen her little face this afternoon when she asked me if she could sleep in her fort tonight and I actually said yes! And then I went even a step further and said yes again when she said that she would like to read for a little bit after our movie we watched.
And guess what? It's now 10:50 and she has turned her light out, put on her music and has decided on her own to go to sleep. I don't have to be the "bad guy" or the controlling parent and she is happy because she has been able to make her own choices. It's a win-win situation.

Here's a quote from a book that I'm reading called Playful Parenting. I read it tonight and thought it was worth posting. I'll end with it and then go and fall asleep on the couch so Brenna won't be out here all by herself.

"When we constantly tell children what they should or shouldn't do, they have no room to think for themselves and are forced to choose between resentful obedience or defiant rebellion." -Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

9 Years

WOW! Nine years that I have been married to my sweet, wonderful, supportive, hard-working, sensitive, awesome, caring, opinionated, passionate husband. Our anniversary was last week. I can't believe that it's been almost a decade. I LOVE YOU BRENDON!! Thank you for making my life so spectacular. :) XXXOOOXXXOOOXXX

Friday, June 12, 2009

Sorry that I have been MIA for a week or so and haven't posted. We have been busy and I haven't had much time to get on the computer. I guess I should not make excuses since Brenna has been at summer camp for five days a week, six hours a day, for the past two weeks. LOL I have been taking advantage of the mommy-time to get things done around the house and run errands without having a 7 year old accompanying me. Surprisingly, I have not had much computer time or made that much computer time for myself. The time just seems to fly by when you are in cyber-world and before you know it three hours has gone past and you have not accomplished much. LOL I am making time now though to post. It is about 11:30pm and Brenna is fast asleep in our bed. I should be in bed with her but conveniently I got my second wind about an hour ago and am just not that tired. She crashed out pretty quick since it was so late. I have our thick curtains pulled down so hopefully she'll sleep in abit. That girl is like a darn rooster! :)

Brendon is out of town on business - wish we could have gone with him but he drove up with a couple people from work and it just would not have been feasible. So it's just us girls for the weekend. It's fun when it's just us and we have our "girl time". Tonight Brenna stayed up until almost 11pm and we jammed out on Guitar Hero. It was so much fun! She went in her dress-up box and picked out some accessories for us to wear (pictures below!!) and I think we must have played about 15 songs. She's actually quite good on the bass guitar - she still plays on beginner and she loves it. It's such a great family thing to do together. We have the World Tour for Nintendo Wii so we have two guitars and a drum set so we can all play together. Family bonding I guess you could call it. LOL Brenna is getting quite a taste for music and has been introduced to many, many artists. I guess you could call it our "music curriculum". I just don't like that 'C' word much. Blah. :) LOL
Brenna has been having a pretty good time with her summer camp thing. We took a field trip last Friday and went on the dolphin watch at the island. Neither of us had ever been on that before and it was pretty cool - we saw lots of dolphins and porpoises. I totally could have done without the "No! Get back over here!", "You can't go up there!", "Stay here with me, now!", "Sit down!", "Stop doing that!", blah, blah, blah.... from all the teachers. Geez, I'm so glad my kid doesn't go to school and just get bossed around all day by superiors. It's unbelievable. Really. At one point Brenna and I were up on the top deck of the boat (which was really cool!) and we heard a kid say, "I want to go up there too!" and a teacher promptly responded, "No, you're not allowed. She's up there because she's with her Mom." There were like only 20 kids (and about 4 adults) - now why can't you just take them up there in small groups - like 5 at a time? It really was very cool! How could you not let a kid do something that they think is just fabulous? How sad. It really wouldn't have been that hard. I'm so thankful that I was there with Brenna so that she wasn't told that she couldn't do something that she wanted to. All in all it was fun though. Brenna got to ride on a school bus for the first time and she was pretty impressed with that. Why, I'm not sure. I think school buses are horrible. But I guess for a kid they are pretty exciting -not having to wear a seat belt; being on the biggest thing you've ever ridden in, ect... I got pretty ticked on the bus too. Surprised? Didn't think so. Brenna was sitting by her friend on the bus on the way to the island - the friend that she has been talking nonstop about since she started summer camp; the friend that makes her little art things that she brings home everyday (and visa-versa I'm sure); the friend that she lets play her Nintendo DS during quiet time. Apparently they are pretty "tight". :) So about half way to the island her friend stands up on the the bus for like two seconds so that she can switch places with Brenna so that Brenna can sit by the window. Very sweet. Apparently she got busted for standing up (never mind that other kids were standing every so often) so on the way back home she had to sit up by the teacher and Brenna had no one to sit with - the kids were told to sit in their exact seats that they had come in on. I just thought that was a little harsh. I ended up sitting by Brenna on the way back cuz she told me that she was lonely. And some people want me to send my kid to school so that she can socialize. HA.

Anyways... on to another subject. Health. I have been taking advantage of all the alone-time that I have had and have started getting back into shape. I've been jogging 2 miles a day all week and have lost 5 pounds already. I feel sooooo great and I'm sure I will feel nothing but better as the time goes by. I have a good 25 pounds to lose (20 now) and I have never been so determined before to get healthy. I've been eating so good (lots of veggies and salads - actually contemplating on becoming a vegetarian - we'll see - still researching that) and surprisingly my appetite has drastically plunged. I used to eat like there was nothing else in the world to do. I LOVE FOOD. Now I find that I am not so hungry anymore and it is so wonderful! Right now I am at 159 and my goal is about 140. Yes, I am making my weight public (*gasp!*) because now maybe I'll have a little more incentive to "report" to all of you who read my blog. LOL So I am hoping that by next Friday I will be at 154. We'll see. I honestly have never been so pumped up in my life to exercise. I didn't get to jog this morning because Brenna said she didn't want to go to summer camp and I was so bummed out! Not that she didn't go but that I couldn't go jogging. That is so not like me! If you would have said a month ago that I would be jogging two miles a day and LIKE IT and actually look forward to it I would have called you crazy. Brenna did go to camp today at about 12:30 though but that was way too late to take a two mile treck (it got to 99 today) so I walked to my Mom's house, which is about a half mile away and immediately got on her exercise bike she has and did that for almost 30 minutes. So that did make me feel better. My Dad is a huge health buff so I told him that I would like to spend a little time picking his brain and have him tell me what I need to do. I'm sure he's full of very useful information. He's not one to push stuff on you but if you ask he has lots to say and so much information that he has aquired. Kinda like me with homeschooling I guess.

Ok, this post is quite long enough! Time for bed. I'll post again soon..... Here's some pictures from the last couple weeks.

(Brenna at the dolphin watch on the bow of the boat)




















(Brenna is the 3rd kid in the orange visor)















(Rock Stars!! LOL)

(A tad embarrassed about this picture, but what can you do....)

Friday, June 05, 2009

Funny

If you can't see them that well, you can click on them to make them bigger.




Thursday, June 04, 2009

Funny the way things happen.....

The best thing ever just happened. :)

I'm at home today catching up on some laundry and feeling a bit lonely. When you're used to having your sweet seven year old with you all day, everyday, life becomes a little drab when she's not here. She's my little side-kick and makes my life so much better.
So I was just thinking about how much I was missing her and then I started wondering if she was missing me too and thought to myself, "Probably not. She's having a blast and I'm sure I'm the last thing on her mind."

Then the phone rings.

And it's my Brenna.

She was calling me just to say hi and that she loved me and missed me. She said she was having a great day and just wanted to call to see what I was doing.
There could not have been a more wonderful time to receive that phone call. I love the way things happen sometimes. Now I'm smiling because my little girl made my day so much brighter.

Summer Camp Update

So what in the world was I so worried about Sunday night?

Brenna has had a blast this week so far and has not wanted to leave when I pick her up. Ok, yes - so Mom over-reacted a little about the whole summer camp thing (see previous post). Can you blame me? This is all new stuff for us. Now I know.

I was a little worried about her all day Monday (okay, so I was obsessing! LOL) - wondering if she was having a good time and hoping she was behaving. LOL My friend, Mieree, went to pick up her daughter and I asked her if she could check on Brenna and see if she was ready to leave yet. Mieree called me and said that Brenna was having a great time and that she didn't want to go home. What a relief that was.
But seriously, what did I expect? That she was going to be sitting in a corner somewhere and crying for her mommy? Yeah, whatever. I totally should have known and I feel silly for worrying so much now. In fact, now I'm afraid that she likes it too much. I'm finding myself at the other end of the spectrum of worrying.
She loves, loves, loves staying at home and has always loved the fact that she's homeschooled. I would say that she is very proud to be one of the two million kids in the U.S. that don't go to school. She'll tell anybody that listens that she's homeschooled - even if they care or not. :)
So now I'm hoping that she's not going to think that this summer camp thing is like school and that she's been missing out on something fantastic. Sorry kid - it's nothing like school. Yes, it's at a school but completely different. You don't get to spend the entire time playing with your friends and doing crafts and going somewhere two days a week on a school bus.

I guess we'll have to cross that bridge when we get there. I just hope that we never get there. I'm sure that I'm worrying a little prematurely like I usually find myself doing.